I'm 24 and i have yet to get over why men can't never be themselves around me it's cute how they try to impress me but it's annoying at times because they always don't know how to act around me and they always think i deserve more than what they are giving me which is nice but all i want is love and happiness like al green lol i just want men to be themselves around me because theirs nothing that they can't buy me i can't buy myself what do you think? thanks
I say take it as a compliment, I mean you don’t want a man to treat you like trash but you have insecure guys who don’t know how to act around you. Which is cute understand you always have the upper hand nothing is wrong with that. I say just wait you will soon meet a guy who does know how to take control and he will treat you how you always wanted. Al green comment funny lol and believe me I feel where you are coming from. I mean look at it like this maybe you are to good for the guys that you have been looking into pursuing. You need someone who is in another bracket than you someone that has a lot to offer and trust me that is not only a turn on but it will fix this problem you are going through now. Loving someone is the easy part the hard part is finding the right person to love. Take your time what you want will definitely come your way in time. Be patient!
I think when people drink they do tend to tell their true feelings and i've witnessed it several times and it's crazy you would never think for instance a person you just met felt a way about you when they get drunk or a person you knew for years it's crazy how in reality you have to work so hard to get people to say there true feelings but under the influence they tell you everything in one second it trips me out also it's shocking and crazy at the same time lol your not overthinking it you on point with everything you said but for instance if someone says i hate you u have everything i want and you would be shocked they said that and you begin to wonder hmmm........ is he serious he's just drunk but ur mind wonder because 9 times out of 10 people dont say things they don't mean it's like if a person says you a fake bitch then say i'm just joking don't you ever wonder how funny people could be by putting im just joking or kidding after they say something rude or harsh and you know what the hell they ment and your like this bitch was not playin she dead serious, that also make you want to stay distant i know i would but, here's a trick if you want to know the truth give a person a little sip of something lol and you would get the truth lol it works trust me especially on a beginner lol but when alot of people get drunk if they have something that's bothering them in their life alot of times the way they act when they are drunk comes from anger and issues they are dealing with in their personal life and when they are drunk it makes them act a certain way at the wrong time because they didn't handle their situations in their everyday life but sometimes you have to let them be but like ur grandma would say a hard head makes a soft ass is true u cant help a person if they don't wanna help themselves hun if u care for them pull them aside when they are sober and tell them and suggest that they need help if it gets out of control and also if you are with them on any occasian when the drinks are flowing watch their liquior intake and just tell them your way ahead of yourself you had enough show them tough love and if they care about your feelings they would respect that if not you know where to leave them where you met them on ur front step cause us as women can try to help everyone but you can't save everyone remember that pray for them if it bothers you and im watching your music journey hun good luck stay true to yourself with your music if u know what i mean it's a cold world out there huggies
Oh I appreciate this so much thank you! & your right girl I am right lol. Please believe I will be testing a few people out to see what they say why not. They say truth hurts welp the sooner the better for me :)
I have this friend who constantly asks me for advice all the time about different situations but doesn't want to tell me about her personal life and when i tell her what to do she does'nt listen anyway but also when i want her opinions on my problems she just listens and says nothing is it me or is she robbing me of my intellegience lol or using me i don't understand
This is a tuff one because your actually dealing with someone who doesn’t trust you. The reason I say this is because they can’t tell you personal stuff about them and that should be something that close friends share unless there has been a mixxy mess between you two. I feel like her asking questions is a way to talk to you without giving you to much information. It’s either that or she may feel your going to judge her and she doesn’t want to hear it. I want to say stop giving her advice because she isn’t taking it anyway but it’s your friend at the end of the day so I know you probably will which isn’t the wrong thing to do. Go with your instincts they will never steer you wrong believe me when I tell you this and that goes for everything. If you don’t want to talk about it DONT if you feel like it isn’t going to make a difference keep it to yourself. Now don’t tell her anything anymore about your personal business because your not getting answers and she’s just staring at you like a deer in headlights not gonna work your not getting a response which you wanted to talk to someone else. If she notices that you have stopped confiding in her she will than ask you why you don’t speak to her anymore and that is your opportunity to tell her how you feel bet she will listen than. You came to me with this question smart girl just remember what I said people always want to be treated a certain way you show her what you expect from her as a friend.
but i honestly feel so alone. i feel like a pain in the ass to everyone. and it’s understandable because who wants to listen to the same depressing bullshit all day. but at the same time, it drives me crazy not telling anyone anything. even my very best friend who i trust with everything, i can’t…
You may want to address what is going on with your life with someone. Keeping things bottled in isn’t right no matter how much you try to convince yourself that it is. I suggest write in a book keep a journal or something if you feel like your bothering anyone but honestly what are friends for they are supposed to be the one’s that you talk to and they help you get through these things. I mean don’t they come to you in hope of a solution to their problems? It could be something so small but you not saying anything is bringing you down and your stressing it. If your friends knew that you were hiding things that you really felt like you needed to address they may ask you why did you feel like you couldn’t come to us and say anything? Now you have two options either talk or write. I hope this helps and I hope you feel better. God bless!
I always knew that alcohol changed people, growing up you always see it in movies but who knew that I would feel the same way about people that I know personally. It never dawned on me that it can change relationships and feelings toward someone when you are completely sober. So is this a problem that the person who consumes alcohol has or am I over thinking it? Maybe if i was drunk I wouldn’t have a problem with it.. You know when you drink or smoke it changes you and some people speak the truth about how they really feel when they get under the influence. If you are an active drinker I advise you to be aware of yourself I am not saying don’t live your life the way you want but be careful because you never know if something that you say may trigger someone and there’s always a chance of no coming back from that. When I say this you may have a personal opinion that may just be to frank for someone to understand at the moment especially when your drunk and the person you are talking to isn’t. I even have friends that I will not drink with because they can not hold their liquor and it can be embarrassing. No body likes a sloppy chick or a drunk sloppy chick. I feel like alcohol changes people and never for the better in some cases fine but I will say this if you feel like someone has a serious problem and needs to be told tell them and keep telling them till it gets through their head. I want some feedback on this post let me know how you feel.
how do u feel about older men and younger women? they know how to approach a female better but be jus as fucked up as tha young guys smh
Older men and younger women sometime creeps me out, depending on the age of them both. However some women like an older man because he is more likely to be more mature than someone their age. Most guys know how to approach a female better yes, but I’ve learned that age is really just a number men usually act younger to fit in which can be a major turn off. They can be just as shallow as younger men that you are right about. I say don’t rush, get to know the guy and see if this is someone you want to be involved with.
what would u say to a female thats tha same age as you and continue to want your advice if she can't talk to anyone else and all tha questions are from her lol
I wouldn’t say anything consider me your new best friend where you ask me things get honest opinions, get advice and that’s all. If you feel like my advice works for you than nothing is wrong with asking me more questions lol. I know all the questions aren’t from one person because people have actually revealed themselves to me after I have given them advice. If you can’t talk to anyone else just know you can always come here and ask away :). Thank you for the question you should update me.
why are men sooooo stupid when they try to talk to you? they wanna talk to you cause you look good to them but when they start talkin to you why do they say stupid shit like oh your jewelry look fake or i can upgrade you or you look alright when u and me both know women shop everywhere and buy anything that we think look nice lol we have our lil shops we go to then why say anything at all........
What is so funny is you used the word men.. when your being approached by boys you must be able to distinguish the difference between the two. Boys usually say things to females that a man will never for example a boy will “yo” you but a man will walk up to you and give you a compliment. (Ohhh how I hate to be yo’d) See I’ve never had someone tell me my jewelry looked fake but I think some males have issues understanding that females have way more do’s than don’ts when it comes to fashion and costume jewelry is definitely a DO girl. So don’t pay him any mind, If you feel like they are right fix it, If you feel like they are wrong brush his immature self off ASAP. Guys have this thing where they think that they make a female so much better when all they really do is bring a headache. Don’t you wish there was a sipper than you could zip when you just wanna keep him quiet? If there is this much in a guy that bothers you my advice is to keep it moving let him deal with an insecure female cause that’s exactly what he wants and is looking for. You continue being fabulous -
I have this friend and all she wanna do is talk about herself and everytime we together she only want to do what she wanna do one time she invited me out to the movies and she said she would pay and acted like she lost her money and all she did was shop for herself and i wanted to curse her out so i decided to cut her off what do i do be her friend or just do what i been doing and stay away from her and by tha way your rap was fly lol add more punch lines go hard on bitches u hate lol thanks girl
Sometimes when you have friends you have to allow them to talk about themselves for a little while because it may be a really good time in their life at that moment. Now her inviting you out and saying she would pay and not doing so was definitely not cool. Many times people don’t notice what they do to people so just make sure that she knows why you guys are not speaking. Communication is HUGE girl you better speak your mind. She was just being a little selfish and not noticing that she could have left you out of that. I will not tell you to talk to her or not but do this below…
Answer these questions and if all the answers are yes you know what to do if they are all no you know what to do.
How long have you guys been friends?
Has she been there when no one else was?
Do you miss talking to her/think about her?
Does she still try to contact you?
Did she apologize for what she did?
Thank you so much lol I’m glad you liked the video.. “add more punch lines go hard on bitches u hate” Your so funny lol maybe I will hahahaha